Tips for Buying or Leasing a Car at the Price YOU Want

I just went through the car buying/leasing process recently, so I thought I would share a few things I learned from the process to give you tips for buying or leasing a car for the price you want. Negotiating for a certain price on a car is not new for me. I’ve done it about four times prior; however, I always seem to learn something new. The one main thing I have never wavered on is setting a “goal price” in my head and sticking to that price no matter what. I basically decide that I will spend “X” amount of money a month that fits in my budget, and then that is all I can spend. If I have to concede and not get the exact car that I want, then so be it. Maybe it wasn’t meant to be. I will say that has never happened, thankfully. I’ve always been able to get the car I want for the price I want. I’ve been either super lucky, or I’ve learned how to play their game a bit. And yes, it is a game.

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Be Willing To Walk Away

I learned this in college when I bought a Honda Accord. I really wanted an Accord, but I was not sure I could afford it. I was on a very fixed budget. I knew exactly how much I could pay and not a penny more. I went in just to see if I could possibly afford a Honda Accord. We sat and talked for hours. They did not want me to leave. They came back with numbers like $360 a month. I told them that was very far off from what I could afford. It had to be $300 and not a cent more. They tried to negotiate and give me new numbers over and over. I just kept saying, that’s nice of you to try and lower the price, but obviously I just cannot afford this car. They got it down to $320 a month, and I told them thanks anyway and I walked out. Just as I was shutting my car door to drive away the salesperson came out yelling, “We can do if for $300 a month!” This was my first reality check that dealers can make it work if they really want to. I wasn’t trying to be a hard-ass or anything. I was just telling them what I could afford. I was excited at first that they could make it work, and I went in to sign the papers. I remember after leaving the dealership I was a little upset though. Upset that they played such a game. They took so many hours of my time if they were going to do it anyway. If they could make that number work, then why put me through so much torture? Well, I get it now. They are trying to get as much possible, but I also will NOT budge on the price I want to pay. I learned that from my experience that day. It has worked for me every single time. I have walked EVERY time I’ve bought or leased a car. Most recently, I walked four separate times before I got the price I wanted. It was a long week of dealership visits, phone calls, and emails; however, I now have my new car, I love it, and I am paying what I want every month. And don’t forget, there are many dealerships around. If you walk from one you can go to another.

Tell them right off the bat….I am here today to look and see if I can afford this car. Don’t give them numbers first. Let them be the first to give you a price. If the numbers are not even close to your “goal number” then just walk. Tell them you guess this car must be out of reach for you. They will most likely try and work some deals. Tell them to give you their lowest and best offer and that you are going to shop around. Then DO shop around! They will call you, don’t worry. They want your business. If you feel like you need to give them a price that you are looking to pay at this point, then make sure it’s a number you want. You can even try with a lower number to negotiate up to the actual “goal number” you have in mind. That works too. 

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Play the Numbers Game

I always go to multiple dealerships and get their lowest number possible. I go back and forth between dealers with what the offers are from them, and then finally get it down to where I need to be. Play the game. The dealerships want your business and WILL try and beat the other dealer’s price. In fact this most recent time, I actually got a phone call in the middle of my paperwork trying to get me to switch and come to them. At that time I had already agreed on a price that I wanted, and I didn’t feel like dragging it out any further. It was much farther away, and I got such a good deal as it was.  

Know the Bottom Line

This was something I learned more about this time around. It was actually my brother that told me that there is more that goes into a good deal besides what you are paying per month. All I cared about before was the monthly payment, because for me that’s what affected me the most. He said, “But are you getting a good deal?” He told me to call the dealerships I was negotiating with and have them email me a copy of the offer they were giving me if I came in to sign. I needed to know the MSRP, how much they were selling it to me for, the invoice price of the car, the interest rates, etc. All costs that went into the loan. I forwarded the email to him and he explained what each number meant and where I should be with each number. I had a super low interest rate and the sale price was almost $2,000 below invoice. They were also paying all the loan origination fees and title transfer fees. He said it was a steal and to go sign now before they changed their mind. I went in immediately and signed. It felt good to get an awesome deal of course! He also provided me with this website that let’s you know if you are getting a deal or not; it’s called True Car. Also, see what deals they have going on locally and on the dealer site, know what is going into a downpayment if there is any (hopefully you can negotiate ZERO down), and make sure they are not charging you any additional fees. You want to know what all the numbers mean and the bottom line of what will be out-of-pocket that day and each month! Lastly, KNOW the value of your trade-in if you have one. Go to Kelley Blue Book and find out. 

Certain Times of the Month are Better

Another thing I learned this time around is that the time you visit the dealer can really matter. I was at one dealership on March 31st, the last day of the month. They REALLY wanted to sell me a car that day; however, the kids and I were just there to look and get prices. My husband was actually teaching that night and out of reach. They kept saying, “What can we do to make you sign tonight?” I kept telling them there was NOTHING they could do. They got it down to a ridiculous price. One that almost made me sign without talking to the hubby. Just kidding. I wouldn’t do that. It was a deal though, and one I could never get back. When I went back a week later they would not even come close to honoring it. And yes, it was even lower than my “goal number” that I set for myself monthly. I did use that offer though to leverage my negotiations. It was an offer they gave me, and when I called them on it they literally said, “We gave you that offer because we really needed one more sale for the end of the month.” I learned that end of the month is a good time to buy, late summer when new models are rolling in is a good time to buy, and end of the year is a good time to buy. 

5 Take-Away Tips for Buying/Leasing a Car

  • Set a “goal price” that you are willing to pay per month and don’t budge; be willing to walk
  • Visit multiple dealerships and work the numbers; play the game
  • Ask dealers to email you with the bottom line numbers of their offers before you go in to sign
  • Know what the numbers mean to see if you are getting a good deal
  • During certain times of the month/year dealers can negotiate some crazy good deals

And the big reveal…..my 2015 Toyota Sienna LE with AWD! Exactly what I wanted for the price I wanted. We also get free oil changes for 24 months and free manicures while we wait. Good luck on your car search. Do what makes you feel comfortable. I am willing to let a deal go in search of another or to compromise on another car if need be. If you are not, then all these may not work for you. Happy car hunting! Stay strong! Don’t panic. There are always deals out there to be found!

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The kids are SUPER happy with our new ride!

Kristin

Comments

  1. Robin (Masshole Mommy) says:

    You did awesome! You family has a really sweet new ride!

  2. These are great tips! My friends told me some these tips when we were looking for our second vehicle. It’s good to know that the best time to buy a car is towards the end of the month. I had no idea. Oh and your Sienna looks awesome!

  3. These are great tips. My husband and I always go car shopping together. I’m the good cop, and he’s the bad cop. =D

  4. I know when I had my first car buying experience it was scary! These are great tips to help those who are buying a car!

  5. I hate buying a new car!!! Your tips are great though and should help ease the stress of anyone entering into a negotiation.

  6. We’ve never leased but these are great tips! Walking away is hard to do, but it can have great benefits. You just have to stand firm!

  7. Amy Desrosiers says:

    We bought a new car last month. I wanted to pay cash and knew how much I had so I was totally the strong one who meant business. I did not fall for their tricks and stood ground. Suffice to say, I got the deal and a new car!

  8. These are great tips for buying a car. I always bring my Dad with me. He is great at getting a good deal.

  9. I was so bummed that you went through all that, but I love this van! Thanks for all the tips!!

  10. We just bought a car about a month ago and I sure could have used your advice. We did walk away from two deals because the price was just too high.

  11. They definitely have a lot more wiggle room than they pretend to have. Car shopping is not fun for me but these tips will help!

  12. Isn’t it amazing how that works… just by walking out, they get nervous and are able to work miracles… 🙂 Sounds like you got a great deal.

  13. I have never leased a car before, really do not plan to. Looks like you got a nice new car – enjoy!

    • We’ve leased and bought. Both have their pros and cons. You have to do what’s best for your family! =)

  14. I’ve learned to always tell the car salesman a monthly price that you can afford that’s about $50 less than you really can. That way if they come back and say I can do this and it’s a little more than what you quoted, you’ll be prepared and happy in the end. The car salesman will never know that’s what you were really looking for in the first place. Then if they do actually hit your quote, even better!

  15. These are great tips! The last time I purchased a car, I went onto their website and “dealed” with them over chat. It was easy to tell them exactly what you want to pay for the car and you won’t go into the dealership without an agreement. Took maybe an hour?

  16. These are awesome tips! We are in the market for a new car, so I’m going to put these to use. Thanks for sharing.

  17. I hate the car buying process. These are great tips for buying a new car.

  18. This is a great article – thank you! We just bought our first dealership car; we spent $300 more than our max, because they made us pay ALL of the taxes, fees, and it totaled almost $450 on top of the darn car price, which I did not get down as much as I’d wanted, by a long shot. I was pretty disappointed in myself, because I know all about negotiating, and walking away. But we had someone with us, and I lost all my confidence. I’m the car person in our marriage. Nick and I are totally fine with that, but we frequently run into the prejudice that women aren’t car people, and men who aren’t car people are defective. While this particular man has been nothing but wonderful in the 4 years we’ve known him, he did (good naturedly, but firmly) refuse to show me how to change the oil on our car, and would help us do it until Nick agreed to be shown. Nick HATES car maintenance, and I love it. #gottalovesexism So sitting there with this otherwise very nice man, across from a dealer who kept shooting amused looks at me, and looking at my husband out in the waiting area with our daughter, and then asking me if I was SURE I didn’t want him in there with me for the negotiation…I lost my nerve. So we overpaid by a lot, but the whole thing was only $3500 (for a 2004 Kia Rio with only 62K miles on it), so in the end, it wasn’t a huge deal. I just felt frustration with myself for not standing up and doing the job I’m more than qualified to do, because #sexism and #lackofconfidence.

  19. Heather Garcia says:

    shes cute what did you name her?
    A few weeks ago I traded in my Honda Civic (Ellie) for a CRV (Black Beauty).
    Beep beep

  20. These are great tips. I was trying to by a car a few months ago and felt overwhelmed with the choices and costs.

  21. These are great tips! It’s so hard to walk away – but it really has to happen if you can’t afford something. We are mini van shopping soon. :0

  22. valerie g says:

    great information. I went back and forth when I bought my car as well. Always great to get a good price.

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